Marriage Counselling

Are you already married?

POST-MARITAL COUNSELLING

Name

Phone Number (WhatsApp preferably)

Email

Name of spouse

How long have you been in CCI?

CCI Network

Ministry

Mustard Seed

Which type of marriage did you contract?

In which church did you get married?

How long have you been married? *

Do you have children?

How many children do you have?

Have you agreed with your spouse to go through this post marital counselling?

Do you agree to be present at all times in all of the sessions?

PRE-MARITAL COUNSELLING

PERSONAL DETAILS

Name

Phone Number (WhatsApp preferably)

Email

Date of Birth

Age

Tribe

Hometown

EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND

Last school attended (add year of completion)

Academic qualification

State qualification

EMPLOYMENT DETAILS

Occupation

Place of Work

Rank/Status

RESIDENCE

Residential Address

Do you own your own accommodation?

Do you live in a rented apartment?

PARENTS & GUARDIANS

Father’s Name

Father’s Residential Address

Father’s Occupation

Mother’s Name

Mother’s Residential Address

Mother’s Occupation

Guardian’s Name

Guardian’s Occupation

Guardian’s Residential Address

PREVIOUS MARITAL EXPERIENCE

Have you been married before?

Where and when?

Spouse’s Name

Are you two separated, divorced or your spouse is deceased?

Reason

Do you have children?

How many children do you have?

With whom are they staying?

Do you care for them?

MARRIAGE PROPOSAL

Have you proposed marriage to someone before and/or vice versa?

What happened?

SEX LIFE

Have you had sex before?

Did you marry your sex partner?

Reason for separation

Have you had a boyfriend/girlfriend before?

How many?

For how long did you date in the previous relationships (breakdown)?

WELL BEING

List five qualities you have.

List five qualities he/she (your beloved) has.

List five qualities you expect from him/her (your beloved).

List five things you like about yourself.

List five things you like about your beloved.

List five things you dislike about your beloved and state why.

If you are to change two things about yourself, what would you change?

How do you plan to make yourself a better person?

How do you plan to make your beloved a better person?

HEALTH

Have you ever smoked?

Why?

Have you ever used hard drugs?

Why?

Do you have a chronic disease?

State the disease

Are you prepared to undergo medical examination including HIV/AIDS and HEPATITIS B?

Reason

MARRIAGE

What is marriage?

What are your reasons for wanting to get married?

What is the name of the one you want to marry?

Why do you want to marry him/her?

How long have you known each other?

How long have you been going out?

Has any formal introduction of your relationship been made to the network pastor?

Has formal introduction of your relationship been made to both parents?

Have both parents consented to your marriage?

Are you ready to marry within 4 to 6 months from now should you pass your counselling requirements?

Explain how you happened to meet each other and proposed love.

What does the bible say about marriage?

Which type of marriage do you want to contract?

How many siblings of your parents are married, if you have any?

SPIRITUAL

Have you accepted Jesus as your Lord and personal saviour?

When

Name of church

Date of baptism

Place of baptism

Baptized by whom?

What is the name of your current pastor?

How long have you been a member of the church?

Where would you want your marriage to be blessed?

Do you have any special request for prayer?

HAVE YOU MADE YOUR RELATIONSHIP KNOWN TO PASTOR OBED?

HAVE YOU SUBMITTED YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO PASTOR OBED AND PASTOR BRENDA?

I have agreed to be present at all sessions.

Christ Cosmopolitan Inc